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Soultribe, let’s tell the truth today —sometimes the body whispers for years before it ever screams.


And mine? She had been clearing her throat for decades.


I spent my early womanhood in a tug-of-war with her. Weight I couldn’t explain, exhaustion I couldn’t fix, cycles that felt like betrayal. I thought I was doing everything right — eating “okay,” staying busy, keeping the smile, keeping the peace. But my body was keeping score the whole time.


PCOS had been hiding behind every miscarriage, every surge of weight I couldn’t shed. And instead of listening, I did what most of us do — I pushed through, prayed harder, and punished myself in silence.


Because nobody tells you that discipline without embodiment is just control in disguise.


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The Universe Speaks Through the Body... listening to my body


When I finally slowed down — not by choice, but because my body refused to cooperate — I realized this wasn’t a punishment. It was a meeting I had been avoiding.


The agenda?

Embodiment. Discipline. Listening.


See, I had built a life around being dependable. Wife, mother, “everything auntie,” business owner, counselor, nurturer. But I wasn’t dependable to myself. I treated my body like an afterthought, an accessory to my purpose, instead of the vessel that made purpose possible.


It wasn’t until I got sick — the kind of sick that strips away the illusion of control — that I understood what divine accountability feels like. When your body calls a meeting, you don’t get to delegate attendance.


You show up. Fully.



The Shift: From Surviving to Stewarding


I stopped chasing perfection and started practicing partnership I Am listening to my body


I began with what I could manage:one tea, one breath, one choice at a time.


My daughter and I started researching herbs together — learning our lineage of healing, not just memorizing trends. I found comfort in the rhythm of steeping tea and whispering gratitude into the steam.


Shashandra became my nervous system’s guardian. Maca root became my hormone harmonizer — blended gently into matcha or green tea on my cycle days. These weren’t magic fixes; they were sacred agreements between me and my body: “I see you. I’m trying.”


I learned that strengthening the nervous system wasn’t luxury; it was survival.Because as you age, life’s blows hit deeper — and without fortification, recovery takes longer.

So I built rituals of restoration:

  • Spiritual baths to release what the day left behind.

  • Alkaline water, prayed over, to remind myself that intention transforms even the ordinary.

  • Barefoot grounding on the grass at sunrise, crystal in hand, reminding my spirit that


    I belong to the earth, not to burnout.


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The Realization: The Body is the Temple of the Multiverse


Your body isn’t a problem to fix. It’s the altar where your spirit takes communion.


How can we receive divine energy if the vessel meant to hold it is running on empty?I had to stop waiting for health to feel holy. It already was.


So I began blessing my water. Touching my skin with love instead of criticism.Praying over my organs like they were sacred elders doing the work of keeping me alive.


Every affirmation became a sermon:

“I bless this body for showing up even when I didn’t.”“ I release guilt for the years I ignored her.”“I am home in myself.”

The Practice: Meeting Yourself Where You Are


This isn’t about perfection, Soultribe — it’s about presence.


You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight. Just promise to attend the meetings your body calls.


Here’s how you can start today:

  1. Listen daily. Pause before your day begins. Place your hand over your heart and ask, “What do you need from me today?” Then actually follow through.

  2. Move with intention. Walk barefoot, stretch gently, or dance — not for calories, but for connection.

  3. Nourish your nervous system. Add adaptogens like shashandra, ashwagandha, or maca. Drink herbal teas that calm your spirit.

  4. Bless what you consume. Water, food, even air — speak life into them. Words carry vibration.

  5. Rest without guilt. Stillness is not laziness; it’s recalibration.


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The Takeaway


Every scar, every symptom, every ache — they’re just messages.


Your body isn’t against you.She’s been trying to get your attention.


When she calls another meeting, don’t send your regrets. Show up with gratitude.


Because healing isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to who you’ve always been.


Peace and love, y’all.Aunty Charmaine

 
 
 

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Soultribe… have you ever experienced a season that hits you so hard it snatches your breath?


Not just the usual “life is lifing” hard. I mean the kind of hard that feels like embarrassment. The kind that leaves your ego bruised. The exhaustion runs so deep that both your body and spirit feel drained. Your emotions spill over onto the people you love. You find yourself frustrated because you didn’t mean to be short, distant, snappy, or numb… but here you are.


And what makes it worse?


You’re doing the work.


You’re saying the affirmations.

You are praying.

You are trying to keep your mind right.

You are showing up.


And still… no movement. No shift. No sign. No breakthrough. Just… silence.


The silence isn’t punishment; it’s instruction.


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The Part of My Story I Don’t Glamourize: Listen to the Universe


I wasn’t always at ease.


I arrived at “surrender” the hard way — because life fell apart in my hands. I’ve stared bankruptcy in the face. I’ve lived through multiple miscarriages. If you’ve never been in that kind of pain, let me explain it like this: it’s not just grief… it’s grief with a receipt. It’s grief that changes how you hear your own thoughts.


And I still had to get up the next morning and be “okay.”


The Mask: Being the “Everything Aunty”


Back then, I woke up every day to be the everything aunty at the local spiritual store I owned.


I was the steady one.

The warm one.

The one with the right words.

The one people turned to when their world was shaking.


I could hold it together in public and crumble in private like it was a full-time job. I smiled, encouraged, and poured into people. Then I’d go home and feel like I had nothing left in my cup.


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The Break: When Pretending Stopped Working


After the final miscarriage… the mask broke.


Not in a dramatic “I’m quitting” way.


In a quiet, terrifying way.


The kind of break where you realize: I cannot perform my healing anymore.


I can’t package it. I can’t pretty it up. I can’t explain it away.


The store moved online. And let me say this with gratitude: the community stayed. They cheered. They supported. They loved me through the transition.


But here’s the truth that set me free:


Community can hold you. Community cannot heal you.


Only one thing healed me: the cessation of pretending.


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The Fears Nobody Sees When You’re “Strong”


I was afraid on multiple levels:

  • Medical fear — because the miscarriages weren’t “simple” losses. They were severe. Dangerous.

  • Financial fear — making “too much” for assistance, but not enough for the rising cost of living, food, everything.

  • Social fear — the judgment, the whispers, the vulnerability of not being the strong one anymore.


And the wild part?


When fear is loud, you can’t hear instruction.


Fear talks in a shout.

God’s voice doesn’t.


The Shift: The Day We Stopped Being Victims


At some point, my family and I made a decision.


Not a motivational quote decision.


A real one.


We decided to stop being victims.


We looked around and named what we did have:

Each other.

A roof.

Clothes.

A chance to start again.


And we started small — because that’s how you rebuild a life without lying to yourself.


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The Practice: One Instant of Gratitude, One Prayer a Day


It started with one incense and one prayer a day.


Not a performance prayer.

Not a “let me prove I’m faithful” prayer.


Just a real one. A tired one. A “help me” one.


And then came the action that changed everything: I decided to shut up and listen.


Because silence feels like abandonment when you’re used to forcing movement.


But I faced that fear anyway — because I wanted to hear God’s voice more than I wanted to hear my panic.


The Revelation: God’s Voice is Not Harsh


Here’s what surprised me:

When the Universe — when God — speaks… it is not harsh. Listen to the universe, It is extraordinarily soft.

Charming.

Cheerful.

Guided.

Protective.


And in that softness, I realized something that rearranged me:


I wasn’t being ignored.


I was being taught.


The silence was necessary to learn how to listen for the reply.


Not for the noise. Not for the drama. Not for the chaos.

For the reply.


What I Want You to Know, Soultribe


Spiritual walks don’t leave you hopeless.


They leave you empowered.


Because when you stop fighting the quiet, you start hearing what’s been trying to guide you the whole time.


Do you need to sit with this one a little longer, baby? I’ve shared the full story and reflection of ‘When the Universe Puts You on Mute’ over on Medium. Pour your tea, take your time, and read it slow — it’s waiting for you there.



If You’re in Your “Mute Season,” Try This Today


Nothing complicated. Just grounding — real-life balance.

  • Meditate at sunrise (even 3 minutes). Sit up. Hand on your chest. Breathe slow. Let the day meet you gently.

  • Walk barefoot on the grass for a few minutes. No phone. No rushing. Just presence.

  • Hold a crystal for balance while you breathe (whatever you already have is fine). Hold it like a reminder: I am allowed to steady myself.

  • One sentence gratitude + one sentence prayer. Keep it honest. Keep it short. Keep it daily.


And then—this is the key—pause long enough to listen.


Not for a booming voice.


For the soft instruction that protects you.


A Simple Affirmation

“I don’t chase clarity. I create space for it.”


Journal Prompt (if you need one)

  • Where am I demanding a loud answer when I’m being offered a quiet instruction?


From Story to Structure


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When you’re ready to stop fighting silence and start listening…


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One step. One day. One honest moment at a time.


Peace and love, y’all.

 
 
 
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