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I can remember when my life felt solid and unshakable. I was always the person who believed that success meant having the big house, the flashy cars, and all the things to show the world that I had made it. I thought that working hard and playing harder was the ultimate path to success. If I could provide my husband with the latest gadgets and give my children everything their hearts desired, I was convinced I had made an indelible mark in the world of success.


But life has a way of humbling us, doesn't it?


My financial stability took a severe hit when I fell ill. As an entrepreneur, this health setback put all my aspirations in jeopardy. Slowly, financial resources drained from my bank account, leaving me with almost nothing. I remember asking myself, "What have I done to cause this outpouring of obstacles?" I felt like a ping pong ball, bouncing back and forth between despair and determination.


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After exhausting myself with worry and anxiety, I finally got quiet with myself. In that stillness, I heard a gentle, encouraging whisper: "You are going through your dark night. I will hold your hand as I allow hardships to teach you the real value you hold."


As I wiped the tears from my eyes, a familiar scent transported me back to my great-grandmother's apartment in Brooklyn. It was at that moment I knew I was going to be okay. I realized that this financial setback was simply a setup for greater blessings beyond my imagination.



The material things I had accumulated held no true value compared to the warmth and love of my family. I understood that my true wealth was directly connected to being of service to others. I needed to change and evolve to become whole, guiding others to their wholeness.


My perspective on success and wealth shifted dramatically due to my financial turmoil. The things I once deemed essential became insignificant. The love and support of my family, the strength to persevere, and the wisdom to learn from hardships became my new measures of success.


So, as I navigate these stormy seas, I hold on to the belief that this turbulence is shaping me into a stronger, more compassionate person. Financial resilience isn't just about bouncing back; it's about growing through the challenges and emerging with a deeper understanding of what truly matters.


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If you're facing your own financial storms, remember that setbacks can pave the way for incredible growth and transformation. Trust the process, embrace the lessons, and know that you are more resilient than you think.


Our story is not unique, for many families traverse similar paths, grappling with financial uncertainties in an ever-changing world. But it stands as a testament to the indomitable spirit of resilience and the triumph of perseverance in the face of adversity.


To those navigating similar waters, I offer these words: hold steadfast to hope, embrace unity in the face of trials, and let each challenge be a stepping stone toward a brighter, more secure future. Victory over financial hardships is not just about the numbers—it's about the unwavering spirit that propels us forward, guiding us to calmer shores despite the storms that rage around us.



 
 
 

I remember the excitement I once had when I thought about my future. I meticulously planned every career goal, convinced that achieving them would bring me the satisfaction I craved. By my early thirties, I had reached a great deal of success. I had just earned my degree and welcomed my fourth child into the world. But not long after his birth, my son fell seriously ill, and it was then that I realized the importance of prioritizing what truly matters: family, love, and good health.


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The obstacles that came with my son's birth marked the beginning of a new spiritual journey for me. His illness forced me to reevaluate my life and to learn how to trust deeply in the Divine Creator. I had to learn how to have faith in ways I had never imagined.


Navigating the chaos of life while balancing work and spirituality is no small feat. It requires a conscious effort to stay grounded and present. I discovered that true happiness comes from within, not from external achievements. This shift in perspective transformed my approach to life and work.


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I learned to integrate spirituality into my daily routine. Meditation became my good friend, providing a sense of peace amidst the storm. I started seeing my work not just as a means to an end, but as a way to express my inner values and contribute positively to the world.


Balancing work and spirituality means setting boundaries and making time for self-care. It means being kind to myself, allowing for moments of rest and reflection. It means seeking joy in the simple things, like a quiet cup of tea or a walk in nature.



My son's illness was a catalyst for my spiritual awakening, teaching me the importance of trust and faith. It showed me that in life's chaos, maintaining a soulful balance is essential. It’s about finding harmony between our outer achievements and our inner peace, and realizing that true fulfillment comes from a deep connection with our spiritual selves.


Life will always have its challenges, but with a balanced soul, we can navigate the chaos with grace and resilience. Soulful Balance: Navigating Work and Spirituality in Life's Chaos.


 
 
 

Sweetheart, if you’re reading this, I want you to pause and just breathe.Right here, right now. You made it to this moment—and that matters.


Because I know what it feels like to carry a life within you, to dream with your whole heart, and then to lose it so suddenly, it takes your breath away. I know the ache of waking up with empty arms and a heavy heart. And I know how quiet that kind of grief can be—so quiet that even the world forgets to ask how you’re doing.


But Aunty sees you. And I want to share the steps I took on my own miscarriage healing journey—not as a formula, but as an offering. A gentle roadmap for those tender, tear-soaked days. Because healing is possible. And Spirit will meet you right where you are.


The Steps I Took in My Miscarriage Healing Journey


Step 1: Give Yourself Permission to Grieve


  1. Let’s be honest, baby—some folks will try to rush you past your pain. But loss like this? It deserves your full heart. I had to let myself cry. Had to stop saying “I’m fine” when I wasn’t. I let the tears come, and with them, I honored the little soul I carried.


    Try This: Light a candle each evening and speak their name. Let the flame hold your love.

“Grief is not something to escape—it’s something to be held, honored, and released in divine time.”Create a Spiritual Sanctuary

You need a space where your spirit can breathe, baby! A place that holds you while you heal. Build a mini altar. Keep your guided meditation playlist ready. Wrap yourself in herbs, oils, prayer cloths, and affirmations that call your Spirit back to you.


Step 2: Create a Sacred Space for Healing


  1. One of the most powerful things I did was create a healing altar. Nothing fancy—just a corner with a photo, a candle, a crystal, and a prayer cloth. Every morning, I’d sit there and breathe. Some days I wept. Some days I just sat in silence. But Spirit showed up every time.


Try This: Choose a small space in your home that feels safe. Add one thing that reminds you of your baby or your own strength. Make this your refuge.




Step 3: Let the Earth and Spirit Hold You


Nature became my companion. I’d take walks and let the trees listen. I’d sit on the porch and talk to my ancestors. I laid my grief down in the soil and felt the wind carry my prayers. That connection reminded me I wasn’t alone—not in the spirit realm, and not here on Earth.


Try This: Take a walk barefoot in the grass. Breathe deeply. Speak to your baby, to God, to your higher self. Let it all flow.


Step 4: Speak Healing Over Your Womb and Spirit


Affirmations were my lifeline. I’d whisper them when I woke up. I’d cry them out when the sadness returned. I needed to hear my own voice declare that healing was not just possible—it was already unfolding.


Healing Mantras:

  1. “My womb remembers, and still I rise in grace and glory.”

  2. “Even in my loss, I am worthy of love, life, and divine joy.”

Repeat these whenever your heart needs a reminder.



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Step 5: Surround Yourself With Spiritual Support


I stopped pretending I could do it all alone. I leaned on my SoulTribe, I prayed with my elders, and I reached out for tools that nourished my spirit. I learned that healing is a community effort—and you don’t have to carry it by yourself.


Try This:✔️ Join our SoulTribe newsletter for weekly love, wisdom, and resources.✔️ Book a womb-healing session or shop our anointed candles + oils at BeadsAndPotions.com.✔️ Show up to our next Tea Time With Aunty and let’s talk heart-to-heart.


Your Healing Is Sacred. And It's Yours.


Baby, this journey isn’t linear. Some days will feel soft. Some will feel heavy. But every step you take in love—every breath you offer to your own healing—is a sacred act of courage.

Your story didn’t end with the loss. It shifted. It deepened. It called you into a new kind of strength. So hear me clearly:

You are still whole. You are still worthy. You are still divine.

And your healing is not just possible—it’s already blooming.

Come get what’s yours, beloved.


Visit BeadsAndPotions.com for guided tools, spiritual support, and sacred healing rituals. Your SoulTribe is waiting with open arms.


With love, softness, and sacred strength,


 Aunty Charmaine


 🕯️💗 “You carried life—now let life carry you.”


 
 
 
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